If I were reading this, I would instinctively look for a photo to assess exactly how fat the “fat” person is. I’d then instantly feel guilty. We live in a society that tells us that fat is bad and thin is good. Larger women are seen as okay if they’ve got shapely hips or big boobs. As long as it’s sexy. It’s all about being sexy. And women are taught to constantly compare themselves to other women. It’s ingrained objectification stemming from living in a patriarchal society, but I won’t go full raging feminist on you, don’t worry.